The
first position is position. This means someone recognized potential
in you and decided to give you a leadership position.
Before
we get too far, let's look at what a leader is.
There
are lots of definitions of a leader. A leader is someone who has
integrity, character, and a strong personality. A leader is someone
who will stand for what is right regardless of the cost or
consequences. While some leaders do possess these qualities, not all
of them do. But I'm sure you'll agree that a good, strong leader
does.
You
may say, “I'm not a leader.” To answer that honestly, though, you
have to consider that leadership is about influence. Everyone has
some influence somewhere, wouldn't you agree?
If
you said you're not a leader, you're probably confining leadership to
positions at work. But what if you're married? You are a leader at
home if you have a wife and kids. Note I didn't say that you are
necessarily a good leader, but you are in the role. If you fail at
that, what does that mean?
You
can relate the idea of leadership to the world of sales. Zig Ziglar
says that when a salesman goes on a call, someone makes a sale. It is
the salesman when the product is purchased or the service is
rendered. If the prospect says “No” then he has made the sale,
hasn't he? He's succeeded in convincing the salesperson that he
doesn't need or want what is being offered.
If
you live alone you still are a leader. Do you hear your self talk?
That reveals the kind of leader you are. Does your internal chatter
build you up or sabotage your best efforts? You sell yourself daily
on whether you'll have a good day or a bad one. Then your attitude
leaks out in your expressions, conversation, and demeanor. Some will
be lifted if you're having a good day; if you're gloomy, others will
pick up on that and be pulled down too.
If
you want to be a leader, a position is a starting point. To get
there, take a look at your influence.
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